What is spanking?
This text has been taken from an information flyer from
Castigatio, the Dutch spankingorganisation.
Some men (both young and old) enjoy getting a good beating on
their (bare) bottoms. As just a part of a love-making session,
or pretending to receive their spanking as a form of punishment.
Other men take pleasure in administering spankings to
those men who are eager to be on the receiving end.
There are many different spanking fantasies.
Role-playing is often employed, e.g. headmaster and student,
coach and pupil or uncle and (naughty) nephew. Other people,
however, find this element of punishment irrelevant or even
annoying: they just like to give or receive the beatings as
Spankings also occur in many different varieties: so
many men, so many preferences. Some people love a 'gentle'
approach and prefer the hand as instrument of discipline,
whereas others crave for the excruciating pain a rattan cane
delivers. Some like to be firmly tied down, others voluntarily
raise their bare bottoms to receive their allotted number of
painful slashes. Some like to combine spanking with having
sex, while others consider these two to be entirely different
All these people, however, have one thing in common:
they simply adore fiery red bottoms. However, spanking can also
be very soft and gentle, especially when the spankee is being
comforted for his "suffering".
Although the "giver" seems to be the boss in a spanking-game,
in fact it is the "receiver" who decides how severe a beating may
be. The giver always has to respect the limits of his partner.